A wonderful book found me. The four Agreements. The first Agreement is be impeccable with your word. Dissected and re read, tasted and touched... this is harder then I first imagined. Being impeccable with my word I thought would come easy because I thought that I already was. I am not... not to the extent that I want and need to be, and before I can expect others to be impeccable with their word, I must be impeccable with my word.